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Communication Alignment Map™ Custom Communication Cipher™ Assessment - Angela

Please dedicate approximately 30 minutes to complete the assessment. Please submit the assessment a least THREE days before your Custom Cipher session. 

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How You Process Information

Don't overthink these. Really, don't overthink your answers.  

We reviewed some of this in the workshop, but this gives you an even deeper connection to your processing style. 

Question 2 of 56

1: When you are frustrated or have to work through a challenge or problem you:

A

Need time alone to figure it out. Process the problem internally first then give your decision.

B

Need to talk to someone about it. Process the problem through discussing it before a decision is made.

C

I agree with both but lean more towards A

D

I agree with both but lean more towards B

Question 3 of 56

2: When you need to work through something difficult, do you: 

A

Prefer to think it through privately first?

B

Prefer to talk it through with someone else to find clarity?

C

I agree with both but lean more towards A

D

I agree with both but lean more towards B

Question 4 of 56

3: When you make a decision that turns out to be right, did the certainty come from: 

A

Your own internal sense or gut feeling?

B

Input or feedback from people around you?

C

I agree with both but lean more towards A

D

I agree with both but lean more towards B

Question 5 of 56

4. When you're upset about something, do you:  

A

Need to process it alone first before you can talk about it?

B

Need to talk about it to understand what you're actually feeling?

C

I agree with both but lean more towards A

D

I agree with both but lean more towards B

Question 6 of 56

5. Do you tend to know what you think:

A

Before a conversation starts?

B

As you discover your thoughts during the conversation?

C

I agree with both but lean more towards A

D

I agree with both but lean more towards B

Question 7 of 56

6. When you are in a new environment or with new people, do you feel: 

A

Uncertain and unsettled until you find your footing?

B

Energized and clear?

C

I agree with both but lean more towards A

D

I agree with both but lean more towards B

Your Mind Naturally Asks

For the next section, choose which answer sounds most like your internal experience when you're stuck on something. 

If there is a second one that shows up as a very close option, You can choose it in the next answer.

Think about these in context of how they play out specifically in your relationship. 

Which feels most like your natural first reaction when presented with new details or information. 

Question 9 of 56

7. When you are trying to solve a problem or are being introduced to a new subject the questions that naturally come to mind first or you ask instinctively:

A

What are we doing? What does success look like? What needs to happen?

B

How will this work? What are the steps? How do we execute?

C

Why are we doing this? Why does this matter? What's the bigger purpose?

D

What if we tried _____? What else is possible? What could happen?

Question 10 of 56

8. For the last question, was there a close second that you would have chosen? 

When you are trying to solve a problem or are being introduced to a new subject the questions that naturally come to mind first or you ask instinctively:

A

What are we doing? What does success look like? What needs to happen?

B

How will this work? What are the steps? How do we execute?

C

Why are we doing this? Why does this matter? What's the bigger purpose?

D

What if we tried _____? What else is possible? What could happen?

E

I am very solid in my original response, I only want to choose my first response from question 7.

Question 11 of 56

9. When something goes wrong or feels unresolved, you: 

A

Want to know what is happening and what needs to happen next.

B

Want to know the process and the steps.

C

Need to understand the reason behind something before you can move forward.

D

Are drawn to possibilities and alternatives to try.

Question 12 of 56

10. For the last question, was there a close second that you would have chosen?

When something goes wrong or feels unresolved, you: 

A

Want to know what is happening and what needs to happen next.

B

Want to know the process and the steps.

C

Need to understand the reason behind something before you can move forward.

D

Are drawn to possibilities and alternatives to try.

E

I am very solid in my original response, I only want to choose my first response from question 9.

Question 13 of 56

11. When something goes wrong or feels unresolved, you:

A

Move toward solutions and action quickly. Ambiguity is uncomfortable, you want the bottom line.

B

Are less interested in Why and more interested in the mechanism. You want to know exactly how to do it differently.

C

Can't let go of a problem until it makes sense to you. You're always looking for a deeper meaning or root cause.

D

Are always seeing how something could be different or better. You think in scenarios and futures more than in present facts.

Question 14 of 56

12. For the last question, was there a close second that you would have chosen?

When something goes wrong or feels unresolved, you: 

A

Move toward solutions and action quickly. Ambiguity is uncomfortable, you want the bottom line.

B

Are less interested in Why and more interested in the mechanism. You want to know exactly how to do it differently.

C

Can't let go of a problem until it makes sense to you. You're always looking for a deeper meaning or root cause.

D

Are always seeing how something could be different or better. You think in scenarios and futures more than in present facts.

E

I am very solid in my original response, I only want to choose my first response from question 11.

Question 15 of 56

13. When something goes wrong or feels unresolved, the first thing you ask is:

A

What happened?

B

How did this happen or how did we even get here?

C

Why did this happen?

D

What else can we try or what if we try _____?

Question 16 of 56

14. For the last question, was there a close second that you would have chosen?

When something goes wrong or feels unresolved, the first thing you ask is: 

A

What happened?

B

How did this happen or how did we even get here?

C

Why did this happen?

D

What else can we try or what if we try ____?

E

I am very solid in my original response, I only want to choose my first response from question 13.

How you primarily take in and process experience

Choose the response that feels most natural as your first response. If there is a close second, you will have a chance to choose your second strongest response in the next question.

Question 18 of 56

15: I make major decisions based on:

 

 

A

What option looks best to me

B

The choice that sounds the best

C

Trusting my gut instinct or feeling

D

Review or study of the issue or options

Question 19 of 56

16. If you have a close second from the last question please choose it here.  

I make major decisions based on:

A

What option looks best to me

B

The choice that sounds the best

C

Trusting my gut instinct or feeling

D

Review or study of the issue or options

E

I am solid in my choice for question 15, I do not have a close second

Question 20 of 56

17. When there is a disagreement or argument, I am most likely to be impacted or swayed by:

A

Whether or not I can see the other person's point of view

B

The other person's tone of voice

C

Whether or not I am in touch with the other person's feelings

D

The logic of the other person's argument

Question 21 of 56

18. If you had a close second to the. last question, choose it here. 

When there is a disagreement or argument, I am most likely to be impacted or swayed by:

 

A

Whether or not I can see the other person's point of view

B

The other person's tone of voice

C

Whether or not I am in touch with the other person's feelings

D

The logic of the other person's argument

E

I am solid in my choice for 17, I do not need to choose a second.

Question 22 of 56

19: It is easiest for me to express what is going on with me by using:

 

A

The way I dress or look

B

My tone of voice

C

The feelings I share

D

The actual words I choose

Question 23 of 56

20. If you had a close second to the last question, choose it here.

It is easiest for me to express what is going on with me by using:

 

A

The way I dress or look

B

My tone of voice

C

The feelings I share

D

The actual words I choose

E

I am solid in my choice for question 19, I do not need a second choice. 

Question 24 of 56

21. I can most effortlessly:

 

A

Put together beautiful, rich color pallets

B

Find the ideal volume & tuning on a stereo system

C

Select the most comfortable furniture

D

Select the most intellectually relevant point in an interesting subject

Question 25 of 56

22. If you had a close second to the last question, choose it here.

I can most effortlessly:

 

A

Put together beautiful, rich color pallets

B

Find the ideal volume & tuning on a stereo system

C

Select the most comfortable furniture

D

Select the most intellectually relevant point in an interesting subject

E

I do not need a second choice, I am solid in my choice from question 21.

Question 26 of 56

23. Choose the option that feels most true to you

Options: Note, if all of these are true at first, there will be a primary one that will be the one thing that you notice first, that one impacts all the others.

A

I have a strong response to colors and the way a room looks.

B

I am very aware of the sounds of my surroundings.

C

I am very sensitive to how clothing feels on my body.

D

I am adept at making sense of new information, facts & data.

Question 27 of 56

24. If you had a close second to the last question, choose it here. 

Choose the option that feels second most true to you

Options: Note, if all of these are true at first, there will be a primary one that will be the one thing that you notice first, that one impacts all the others. You should have chosen that one in the last question, choose the 2nd in this question

A

I have a strong response to colors and the way a room looks.

B

I am very aware of the sounds  of my surroundings.

C

I am very sensitive to how clothing feels on my body.

D

I am adept at making sense of new information, facts & data. 

E

I am solid in my response to questions 23, I do not need to choose a second

Question 28 of 56

25. When you remember an important conversation or memorable experience. What comes back first?

A

The images and visual details of where you were?

B

The exact words that were said?

C

The feelings in your body?

D

An internal sense of what it meant?

Question 29 of 56

26. If you had a close second to question 25, choose it here.

When you remember an important conversation or memorable experience. What comes back first?

 

A

The images and visual details of where you were

B

The exact words that were said

C

The feelings in your body

D

An internal sense of what it meant

E

I don't have a close second to the last question. I an solid in my response to the last question

Question 30 of 56

27. When you're trying to explain something important to someone, do you naturally: 

A

Paint a picture

B

Tell a Story

C

Describe a feeling or sensation

D

Give a logical explanation

Question 31 of 56

28. If you had a close second to the last question, choose it here.

When you're trying to explain something important to someone, do you naturally: 

 

A

Paint a picture

B

Tell a Story

C

Describe a feeling or sensation

D

Give a logical explanation

E

I don't need a second choice I am solid in my first response in question 27.

Question 32 of 56

29. When something feels off in a relationship, h ow do you first know? Do you: 

A

See it in their face or behavior

B

Hear it in their tone or words

C

Feel if somewhere in your body

D

Arrive at a logical conclusion that something has changed

Question 33 of 56

30. If you had a close second to the last question, choose it here

When something feels off in a relationship, h ow do you first know? Do you:

 

A

See it in their face or behavior

B

Hear it in their tone or words

C

Arrive at a logical conclusion that something has changed

D

Feel if somewhere in your body

E

I do not have a close second, I am solid in my first choice in the last question

Question 34 of 56

31. When you're learning something new, do you prefer to:

 

A

Watch someone do it

B

Talk through it. or listen to an explanation

C

Do it yourself and feel it out

D

Read about it or look to understand the logic first

Question 35 of 56

32. If you had a close second to the last question, you can choose it here. 

When you're learning something new, do you prefer to:

A

Watch someone do it

B

Talk through it. or listen to an explanation

C

Do it yourself and feel it out

D

Read about it or look to understand the logic first

E

I do not have a close second to that last question, I am solid in my response on 31

Question 36 of 56

33. When you replay a difficult conversation in your mind afterward, what are you most focused on?

 

A

What it looked like?

B

What was said word for word?

C

What you felt in your body during it?

D

What it meant and what you should have said?

Question 37 of 56

34. If you had a close second to that last question, you can choose the answer here

When you replay a difficult conversation in your mind afterward, what are you most focused on?

 

A

What it looked like?

B

What was said word for word?

C

What you felt in your body during it?

D

What it meant and what you should have said?

E

I do not need a second choice, I am solid in my choice is 33.

Patterns & Problems

How you relate to change and recurring dynamics

Question 39 of 56

For each statement rate on a scale: 5 = Always down to 1 = Rarely 

 

35: I quickly notice mistakes

A

5 always

B

4 often

C

3 consistently

D

2 sometimes

E

1 rarely

Question 40 of 56

For each statement rate on a scale: 5 = Always down to 1 = Rarely

 

36: I naturally identify risks

 

A

5 always

B

4 often

C

3 consistely

D

2 sometimes

E

1 rarely

Question 41 of 56

For each statement rate on a scale: 5 = Always down to 1 = Rarely

 

37: I often challenge assumptions

 

A

5 always

B

4 often

C

3 consistently

D

2 sometimes

E

1 rarely

Question 42 of 56

For each statement rate on a scale: 5 = Always down to 1 = Rarely

 

38: I see flaws before others do

 

A

5 always

B

4 often

C

3 consistently

D

2 sometimes

E

1 rarely

Question 43 of 56

For each statement rate on a scale: 5 = Always down to 1 = Rarely

 

39: I tend to compare everything against high standards

A

5 always

B

4 often

C

3 consistently

D

2 sometimes

E

1 rarely

Question 44 of 56

40: When you are observing a situation, project or discussion, which do you recognize FIRST?

A

Similarities first and then possibly difference, but mainly focus on what is the same, what people/situations/things have in common or are driving to a common goal

B

Differences first, I mainly focus on how people/situation/things are unique or different or when different factors are used to drive a goal

Question 45 of 56

41. When something goes wrong in your relationship, is your first instinct to

 

A

Identify what the problem is and move toward fixing it

B

Find what's familiar and manageable about the situation

C

I agree with both but lean more towards A 

D

I agree with both but lean more towards B

Question 46 of 56

42. In your relationship, do you find yourself more focused on:

 

A

What's not working and how to fix it

B

Whats working and how to keep it stable

C

I agree with both but lean more towards A

D

I agree with both but lean more towards B

Question 47 of 56

43. When you imagine the relationship being genuinely different what feeling comes up first? 

A

Excitement and possibility

B

Uncertainty and loss of something familiar

Values Alignment

What you say matters vs what your behavior demonstrates matters

Question 49 of 56

44. List your top 5 personal values without overthinking it. Whatever comes up first.

(You briefly mentioned that you had done something with values already, so you may have these. And for this exercise, utilize the values that feel the most important to you in your own words or descriptions.)

Question 50 of 56

45. For each of the values write one specific example from the last month where your behavior clearly demonstrated that value

Question 51 of 56

46. For each value, write one specific example where your behavior contradicted or fell short of that value

Question 52 of 56

47. Which value feels most consistently alive in how you actually show up?

Question 53 of 56

48. Which value feels most consistently hijacked, meaning you say it matter but you keep not demonstrating it?

Question 54 of 56

49. When there is a gap between what you value and how you behave, what's usually happening in that moment? What pressure or feeling is present?

Question 55 of 56

50. If we looked at your calendar for the past 6 months, would it agree with the values you stated were important? 
For example: If you say family and friends are important but you regularly reschedule with them for work your calendar will show more work events during the times that you should be spending with family and friends.  

A

My calendar and my stated values agree

B

My calendar and my stated value disagree

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